Deran
From Chicago, Illinois, United States
40 y.o. man seeking woman 30-42
- Height: 5'7" / 170 cm
- Weight: 176 lbs / 80 kg
- Body type: About average
- Hair: Black, Medium length
- Eyes: Black
- Ethnicity: Asian
- Zodiac sign: Cancer
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Last update: March 15, 2025
Member since: March 10, 2025
Username: Rorschach
Member ID: 1346861
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Active today
Last update: March 15, 2025
Member since: March 10, 2025
Username: Rorschach
Member ID: 1346861
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About Me
Hello,
This is me...
A binge-watcher of movies, series, and YouTube by default, adventurer by occasional necessity and whisperer to pets. If I'm not deep in a gaming session or lost in a series marathon, I’m probably out crossing off a bucket list item like skydiving—or bravely creating this profile.
I’m pretty much calm and open-minded to all points of view, coz the alternative of judging is not how I roll.
Be the change has always been at my core, it is harder at times but I have an usually high level of tolerance. I find the words people use don’t always reflect the story behind them, so I like to focus on why someone says something.
I enjoy people’s stories—good, bad, or mundane. It’s fascinating that we arrived at this exact moment in life, where our paths happen to cross—whether it’s clients I pitch too, colleagues on a project or strangers reading this profile.
I enjoy my role as the go-to-person, would enjoy it more if people "would take headed of my instructions. Heed. Take heed" (If you get this The Office reference - then we should be friends). But this is my special ability - take almost any situation and relate it to a scene from a movie, series or youtube video.
Now, I’m looking for my own "person"—someone who enjoys great conversation, shared laughter, and the occasional existential debate, like... was Thanos right?
I don’t believe in soulmates or meet-cutes anymore. But I do believe in the magic of getting to know someone—someone who’s kinda like me, yet the total opposite where it matters. Because balance is key to all things in life.
If you’re down for deep chats, casual roasting, and a little chaos in co-op mode, let’s talk. I mean you read this far...
Also Im Indian but not from India - there was no Indian option to choose from ethnicity, Asia is the continent. Not sure what to make of that or more importantly - what do u make of it?
About My Match
Someone who shares a love for series, movies, gaming, and the occasional adventure. A sense of humor is a must—or at least the ability to pretend to laugh. I’ll take what I can get. :)
I’d be happy to get to know people like this, but for a deeper friendship, traditional values like honesty, integrity, kindness, patience, and understanding are a must. Mutual respect is important to me, as is supporting each other’s personal goals. Do we have shared goals? No idea yet—but let’s find out.
But wait, there’s more! Because balance, right? I’m great at cooking but terrible at washing up. So, the ideal balance here? Someone who enjoys home-cooked meals and knows how to operate a dishwasher.
Strangely getting a lot of messages without uploading a pic (not sure if thats a good thing or bad thing), so if you do message - quote your favorite movie/series line, just so I know you read all this...
About Myself
- English (native)
- Master's Degree
- Design/Visual & Graphic Arts
- Christian
- Divorced
- I have no kids
- No
- Non-Smoker
- Never
Personality and Interests
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Calm, Friendly/Kind, Humorous/Witty
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Skydiving/Hang Gliding/Flying, Yoga/Meditation
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Cooking, Movies/Videos, Video games
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Cajun/Southern, Fast Food/Pizza, Indian
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Christian & Gospel, Hard Rock & Metal, Punk, Rock
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Comics, Fiction