Deran
From Chicago, Illinois, United States
40 y.o. man seeking woman 30-42
- Height: 5'7" / 170 cm
- Weight: 176 lbs / 80 kg
- Body type: About average
- Hair: Black, Medium length
- Eyes: Black
- Ethnicity: Asian
- Zodiac sign: Cancer
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Last update: March 12, 2025
Member since: March 10, 2025
Username: Rorschach
Member ID: 1346861
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Active within 24 hours
Last update: March 12, 2025
Member since: March 10, 2025
Username: Rorschach
Member ID: 1346861
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About Me
Hello,
This is me...
A binge-watcher of movies, series, and YouTube by default, adventurer by occasional necessity and whisperer to pets. If I'm not deep in a gaming session or lost in a series marathon, I’m probably out crossing off a bucket list item like skydiving—or bravely creating this profile. Because balance, right?
I’m great at being non-judgmental—like Switzerland, just pretty much neutral and open to all points of view. The words people use don’t always reflect the story behind them, so I focus on why someone says something rather than just what they’re saying. I enjoy people’s stories—good, bad, or mundane. It’s fascinating to see how they’ve arrived at this exact moment in life, where our paths happen to cross—whether it’s clients, colleagues, old friends, or strangers reading this profile.
I’ve somehow become the go-to person for advice, a joke to brighten up the day and that dependable friend. Now, I’m looking for my own go-to person—someone who enjoys great conversation, shared laughter, and the occasional existential debate, like... was Thanos right?
I don’t believe in soulmates or meet-cutes anymore. But I do believe in the magic of getting to know someone—someone who’s kinda like me, yet the total opposite where it matters. Because balance is key to all things in life.
If you’re down for deep chats, casual roasting, and a little chaos in co-op mode, let’s talk. I mean you read this far...
About My Match
Someone who shares a love for series, movies, gaming, and the occasional adventure. A sense of humor is a must—or at least the ability to pretend to laugh. I’ll take what I can get. :)
I’d be happy to get to know people like this, but for a deeper friendship, traditional values like honesty, integrity, kindness, patience, and understanding are a must. Mutual respect is important to me, as is supporting each other’s personal goals. Do we have shared goals? No idea yet—but let’s find out.
But wait, there’s more! Because balance, right? For example, I’m great at cooking but terrible at washing up. So, the ideal balance here? Someone who enjoys home-cooked meals and knows how to operate a dishwasher.
About Myself
- English (native)
- Master's Degree
- Design/Visual & Graphic Arts
- Christian
- Divorced
- I have no kids
- No
- Non-Smoker
- Never
Personality and Interests
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Calm, Friendly/Kind, Humorous/Witty
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Skydiving/Hang Gliding/Flying, Yoga/Meditation
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Cooking, Movies/Videos, Video games
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Cajun/Southern, Fast Food/Pizza, Indian
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Christian & Gospel, Hard Rock & Metal, Punk, Rock
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Comics, Fiction